Plans plans plans

I have big plans for Valentine's day (kind of).

On the actual V-day I'm going to give myself some self-loving. Take a long bath, meticulously groom myself, and pleasure myself silly. Maybe play some Skyrim while drinking wine. :)

On Wednesday I'm dropping my kitties off at the cat-sitter and driving to see Master, and I should arrive by mid-afternoon. He'll still be at work at that point, but I'll go downtown myself and buy a sexy nurse outfit per his request at my favorite sex shop in his city (which is much better-stocked than the one in mine). We'll meet downtown after he gets off of work and have dinner at a nice restaurant there - maybe a sushi place. Then we'll go back to his place and I can "care" for him in my new outfit.

On Thursday I'll have a lazy day - he still has work, so I'll probably sleep in. Maybe I'll hang out with one of my metamours, if she's not working that day, but otherwise I'll knit and play with Master's bunny. (Not a euphemism - he has an ADORABLE pet rabbit.) I'll be wearing nothing but my collar when Master gets home from work. :3

On Friday I'll sleep in and be lazy again while he works, and in the evening we're having a mini-party. Ume and Gene are arriving that night (IIRC), so we get to see them! Yay! There will be much socializing and having fun.

On Saturday we'll all go out for a meal together and get ready for the masquerade ball that night. Then is the ball, which will be much fun and enjoyment, and when we get home I imagine we'll have an awesome orgy.

On Sunday we might orgy a bit more, but regardless we'll have breakfast together; maybe get something from Dunkin' Donunts. Then I'll go home and pick up my kitties. :)

Good news, everyone!

Well, I'm excited! My good friend Ume and his fiancee, Gene*, have been open for a while. They approached Master and me a while back about a possible hook-up, but we were just starting our relationship with Tapeti at the time, so we said "not right now." Then Master and I were talking about it, and we decided to bring it back up with them. And they said yes! Yaaaaay. :D

We still need to hash out the specifics of what/where/when. We don't want to do a straight-up swap; that feels kind of weird. However, I am intrigued by watching a couple have sex and have sex at the same time. The idea of hearing them beside me, of seeing them moving together while I can feel Master moving in me, is incredibly hot.

Also, OMG! Two penises! I've never been able to play with two at the same time before, so that will be fun. I don't think Master and Ume are interested in playing directly with each other, which makes the yaoi fangirl in me shed a single tear, but I still think it'll be fun.

I'm not sure how much Gene will want to play with me; she's mostly straight, AFAIK, which means I might not be able to eat her pussy. Sad day. But I know she's fine with makin' out with ladies, so that's something, at least!

I am so excite.

*Pseudonyms, obviously.

Homework leads to a short post

Impromptu spanking/paddling sessions are so much fun.

Being led around the apartment on a leash makes me all nostalgic.

Tradition

Master and I have recently started a new routine when I spend the night: as he brushes his teeth and futzes around, I make the bed. When I'm done, I strip down (I normally sleep in the nude) and curl up in my kitty-corner next to the bed and wait for Master to arrive.

He turns off the light and climbs into bed, and I ask if I can climb in too. He sometimes says "yes" right away, but usually he says "no" or "not yet." Then I curl up in my kitty corner while he scritches my head and he'll ask me a few questions - "Have you been a good girl today?" "Why do you like being my kitten?" - stuff like that. After talking for a few minutes, he lets me into bed, and we snuggle. ^_^

*warm fuzzies*

MY STRAP-ON

LET ME SHOW YOU IT. (warning: there be fake p33n on the other end of that link.)

I went to the Smitten Kitten in Minneapolis with F the other day. It was super-awesome! The store was smaller than I expected, but it was very open and airy - and they had free water, which was nice because it was hot out. Though F wasn't looking for anything in particular, I was there on a mission: I wanted one of their little floggers and a nice, relatively cheap strap-on harness to use with M in the future.

I think I may have weirded F out a little bit, since she's vanilla, though she seems understanding of me getting all giddy over elkhide floggers. She does like light bondage - but that's all I liked at first, too, and now look at me. Really, it's only a matter of time... *plots*

Ahem. In any case, the Smitten Kitten was really neat. And it's actually really easy for me to get to - so maybe I'll be making trips there more often. I also saw on their website that they're hiring. Oooh, so tempting.

Random note: most amusing item they had there was the "Vanilla Bondage Set," which had packaging shaped like a carton of vanilla ice cream. And all the ribbons etc. inside smelled like vanilla, too. Very cute. ^_^

Uh... I wanted to say more, but I forgot. I'm sleepy. I'll talk more later.

In lighter news

Ack, I'm tired. Despite three pillows, a sheepskin rug, and a throw blanket, the floor is not condusive to a sound night's sleep. -_-

Regardless, lookee what I gots here!

Whee! I feel special. :3 Thanks a bunch, Trin!

Now, seven other blogs who should get one... *peruses blogroll*

You know what? I nominate all those people over there. There's a reason I put 'em over there - they're good! All of them! Go read them now!

(Psst: if anyone can point me towards some good blogs of fellow petplayers, or even... *gulp* furries (I still have a bit of hesitation calling myself that), I'd be much obliged.)

Reunion

I just got back from my visit to see Master. It was so amazingly awesome! We went all around the city - and, of course, made up for all the lost time spent apart. ;)

We went to the gay district, where we visited a sex shop that I really like. It's run by a bunch of really cool women, and it totally flaunts the seedy, dark, dingy stereotype. It's more like a trendy boutique than anything. In any case, we got a nice riding crop. It's a bit on the short side, with a nice wide flap-thingie (whatever it's called) at the end. Master used it on me a couple times while we were in the basement at his house, but he couldn't hit very hard (*sad*) because his parents were sleeping upstairs, lol. I admit I was a little disappointed, since the light whipping he gave me didn't really satisfy my craving for a good, hard scene. But it couldn't be helped, and it certainly was enjoyable in its own right. Two minutes in heaven is better than one minute in heaven and all that.

What was really funny, though, was that we were walking all around the city after we bought the crop, which didn't fit in Master's messenger bag. So we had to walk around the city with a riding crop (albeit in a black plastic bag) sticking out and poking the random passerby.

We also met with M, who's having a lot of fun prodomming. However, she did have a bit of an accident during an erotic photo shoot and had to go to the emergency room with a rather embarrassing wound. The poor baby. :( When her prodom friends heard about it, they gave her a gift basket full of floggers and paddles and other toys. I hope she brings them up to school with her - or I get to see them next time I go down to see Master and her!

I have something of an infatuation with floggers, though I've never been on either the giving or receiving end of them. They look like they're exquisite, though, and from what I've heard/read of the sensations they produce, I'm practically salivating to have Master or M try one on me. It's possible that, once I actually experience a flogger, I'll find it won't be nearly as exciting as I imagine. But considering the wide variety of floggers and all the different sensations they can produce, I'm sure I'll find at least one type that I like.

Master, M, and I went to a BDSM shop with two of M's friends. Though one of them also seemed interested in kink, one of them was decidedly vanilla, lol. And though he was pretty good about being surrounded by leather hoods and harnesses and chastity belts and whatnot, he definitely was baffled by the entire thing. Sometimes I forget that most people don't like to mix pain with pleasure - I'm not used to having to explain it, since most of the time it never even comes up. So when M's friend asked, "Why in the world do you guys like this stuff?" all I could do was grin and shrug.

The BDSM shop was geared towards leathermen, so there wasn't much stuff specifically for women there, but there was an absolutely gorgeous elkhide flogger there! Aaaaah, it was so soft! It was also very well-balanced (according to M; I don't know enough to make a valid judgement). I think I'm going to save up for one. Yes yes. I think I shall.

Also, Master's going to look into us visiting a BDSM club and maybe even go to a play party next time I go to visit him. I hope we can - I really would like to meet new people in the community in person. Online is fun and all, but it's not the same experience as meeting people and watching them play.

~~~

Whenever Master was at his computer, I sat on the floor beside him and rested my head on his lap. As he ran his fingers through my hair, I couldn't think of any place I'd rather be. I can't wait to see him again.

New toy!

My new toy came in the mail the other day. (Mine's the dark purple one.) I haven't tried it out yet; it's for the summer when I'm away from Master. It looks really fun, though. And best of all, it's harness-compatible for playing with M! :3

I'll probably go to the Smitten Kitten over the summer and get one. I've never been to their store, but I hear nothing but good things about them. S can come! We'll make it a girl's night out.

Quick update

I made a profile on Fetlife! It's under the same name I use here, so search for "Zula." I'd link directly to my profile, but I'm getting a 503 error. Again. :/

I'll make a long post about Beltaine later, when I have more time.

Short story: IT WAS AWESOME.

Scary-fun

Well, we've found a third person to play with! M, Master's and my friend, said she'd love to play with us for Beltaine (tomorrow night)! I'm so excited!

Master and I discussed for a while, and we decided we'd like M to play with us most. Originally we were going to ask both her and Z, but M and Z are going through a rough patch right now and are kinda-sorta broken up, so just M. That's still cool though. M is a wonderful woman - very intriguing. Even though she and I are friends, I don't know her quite as well as I'd like (though obviously I'm comfortable enough to play with her), and perhaps this will help foster closer bonds.

The three of us got together and discussed limits, logistics, how we were feeling, expectations, etc last night. Master and I have a good handle on each other's limits, so it was mostly to see what M was and wasn't comfortable with. There are some definite differences than what we're used to; she LOOOVES wax play but can't stand ice cubes, while I'm exactly the opposite. It should be fun to add this new dimension.

I'm a little intimidated though, because M revealed to us that (though she's going to be subbing in this scene) she's going to go into the pro-Domme business over the summer! It's not going to be her lifelong career, but the fact that she's well-established enough in her city's BDSM culture that people are requesting and paying to play with her is... well, it makes me feel a little starstruck. Like playing a game of pickup football in the backyard with Dante Culpepper or something. Though it does reassure me that she knows what she's doing.

As it stands now, this is going to be a one-time playdate. If we really like it, perhaps we will play a few more times before school lets out for the summer. However, none of us think we should start a long-standing relationship, especially not a triad, right before school lets out. If our feelings change after Beltaine, we'll reassess them then.

I also expressed my apprehension about being intimate with a women to M. The thing is, even though I'm pansexual and attracted to women, I've never done any below-the-belt stuff with one before! Even though I've got the same parts so I should know what I'm doing, it's... it's really scary! To my amazement, M admitted that she felt the exact same way, despite being in several long-term relationships with other women. Well! That made me feel a lot better. Hopefully we'll be able to get over our nervousness together. ;)

At the end of our talk, Master had M and I take turns being blindfolded and kissed, caressed, etc. by Master and the remaining woman. I was a little nervous at first because I didn't know where to begin, but M is very... expressive... and I figured out easily what she liked. And her kisses taste nice, too. It was cool, because when I watched Master touch and kiss M, I didn't feel jealous at all. In fact, I was grinning from ear to ear! I was worried that I'd have to deal with a little jealous part of me even though the vast majority of me wants to play with M, but it seems I won't have that problem in the least, thank goodness.

I can't wait until tomorrow!

AAAH!

Look look!

I'm in a carnival! My first!

*is very excited*