I can't find my "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" book. :( I think I lent it to Master; I hope he still has it. It's nigh-on-impossible to get a copy of the damn thing.
However, I did just order a copy of "Opening Up" on Amazon.com. Somebody posted a quote of it on Livejournal and their take on it (Yeah, I have a Livejournal. No, I'm not telling what my username is. (Hint: it has nothing to do with this blog)), and my mind exploded a little bit, but in the good way. So I figured I should try reading the rest of the book and see if it helps me at all.